Internet Safety
Internet safety is important for everyone, no matter your age or identity. These tips are useful for anyone online, but they’re especially important for people in the agere (age regression) community, as being in a vulnerable or regressed headspace can make online spaces harder to navigate.
Be Careful with Links
Never click random links, especially from strangers. These links can contain viruses, scams, or malicious content. Even if a link looks familiar (e.g., “YouTube” or “Instagram”), it might be fake. Ignore suspicious messages that say things like “Click this to learn more!” especially from blank or empty accounts, or ones that seem to repost generic content. Only click links from trusted sources you know and recognize.
Protect Your Personal Information
Do not share personal, medical, or sensitive details online (such as mental health diagnoses, trauma, or triggers). Malicious people can use this information against you. If you want to set boundaries, you can include a “Do Not Interact” (DNI) section on your profile to let people know who you don’t want to engage with.
Stay Safe with Online Relationships
Do not look for caregivers online. This can attract unsafe people or predators. Be cautious when talking to strangers. If someone makes you uncomfortable, even a little, block them. You don’t owe anyone continued conversation, especially if they are inappropriate or push your boundaries.
Media Safety While Regressed
The internet can be unpredictable. Avoid consuming or sharing content that might not feel safe while regressed. If you’re a minor, be extra careful and never share personal information or private photos.
Use the S.M.A.R.T. Rule
The SMART mnemonic is a simple way to remember online safety:
- S – Stay Safe: Don’t share personal information.
- M – Meeting Up: Don’t meet people you only know from the internet.
- A – Accepting Files: Don’t download or open files or links from people you don’t trust.
- R – Reliable: Check sources before believing or sharing information.
- T – Tell Someone: If someone is inappropriate or makes you feel unsafe, tell a trusted adult, friend, or community member.
Your Comfort Comes First
You are never obligated to stay in contact with someone who makes you anxious or uncomfortable. Blocking is always okay. Your safety is more important than their feelings.
Sources
nostaligiclittlespace. “Agere internet safety.”
bugbro. “Important Internet Safety PSA!”